October 2, 2007

  • Dmitry's finding Social Studies rather rough going just now.

    The lesson's over the post-WWII era, which naturally encompasses the Cold War and the break-up of the Soviet Union.  

    You'll doubtless find this hard to believe, but apparently Russian history books put a rather different spin on these events than do ours.  e-ghost

    Don and I point out to him that it's to be expected that accounts by the two nations would differ, and that were he to study the American Revolution as told by a British history book, he'd be hard-pressed to recognize it as the same event he'd learned about last year;  WWII history from a Japanese perspective is completely different than ours, and so on.

    Few people are so advantageously placed as to be able to compare the differences between the accounts of historical events as told by two nations, and instead of becoming agitated about those dissimilarities, he should find them interesting. 

    Tomorrow after school he and I have got to go to a florist and order Carolyn's homecoming mum.  He'd been scheduled to go with her mother on Saturday but then she was called into work so the trip never happened.  Her mum should be quite something, what with him being Russian (do you suppose they'll have a trinket representing Russia?), and her being on the swim team and in the Air Force ROTC at her school.  And they both love video games and anime. 

    This will be his second school dance (the first being the Eagle Academy prom where he met Carolyn) and his second school football game (he attended Temple Christian's homecoming game the year he was there).

Comments (9)

  • Tell me about this "homecoming mum" thing. Is it a corsage? We don't have any tradition like that here where there is something that reflects the particular interests of the couple.

  • It's made of one or more chrysanthemums (hence the name), decorated with streamers, trinkets, and who knows what all, in the school colors. The girl wears it to school on the Friday of the homecoming game, then to the football game that evening.

    Here's a photo of a couple: http://www.kpyk.com/RaysFloral/mums03fr.jpg

  • Do you know how widespread that tradition is? Is it mainly a Texas thing?

    Those are LARGE.

  • Not really, for I assumed it was common around the country, so I'm unaware of what areas...barring Pennsylvania, obviously....don't do the mum thing.

  • Our son and d-i-l in Evanston IL gather up a lot of campus strays to have holiday dinners with them.  One Christmas when we were out there one of the guests was a Chinese student.  They showed him the kids' history book - the section about Communist China.  He read it carefully and then said, "Yes, there were some mistakes made, but only over a period of about ten years.  This book is not accurate."  I was tempted to tell him the Chinese regime was one of the most brutal in the history of the world for a lot more than ten years and still is a bit hard on female babies, but I thought it might cast a pall on Christmas dinner.

  • Definitely would have cast a pall. I daresay his remarks were met with a deep, profound silence, after which everyone began talking at once.

  • You know, maybe I shouldn't assume too much. I'm not too "up" on what kids do nowadays as part of school-related fesitivities, although Anna's never mentioned anything like that at her school. So I don't *think* there's anything like that here now, but I can't be 100% sure. What I do know is that it wasn't any kind of tradition around here 20-25 years ago, when I was comin' up.

  • You do have to be careful about people from other cultures, and historical beliefs. I'm not saying ours are wrong, but they might be a little more black and white negative than is completely accurate, or at least than would make any sense to someone who actually lived in that country. That's not to say that Chinese communism isn't/wasn't horrible and brutal, but to us -- it's something we read facts about in a history book or the newspaper, and those facts add up to horrible and brutal. To them, it's something they or their parents lived through, and all their experience of it wasn't horrible and brutal (unless they were the particular victims of it.) So it's understandable that their perspective would be a bit different, and not completely wrong for that (though wrong to the extent that they deny the reality of the evil.)

    I find it fascinating, for example, that my Chinese sister-in-law believes that the Japanese are simply the most evil people in the world. Now, if you look at some of the things their empire has done historically, especially to China, you understand why a Chinese person would think that. But for most of our lifetimes, Japan has gone from uneasy ally to downright buddy-buddy business partner and subject of cultural fascination, not to mention the ever-friendly tourists one sees at every significant public site in America (though I did note their conspicuous absence at the WWII Memorial in DC, which was noticeable given how they were swarming all over the rest of the mall. ) So to us, it's shocking that someone could have a horribly low opinion of the Japanese, because we think they're mostly nice people -- but OTOH, most of us have no qualms about visibly shuddering whenever someone mentions Communist China, even if we'd be quick to add that we've nothing personally against Chinese people.

  • Never heard of the mum thing in Tennessee, North Carolina, or Georgia!

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