July 14, 2005

  • Dmitry is the oddest combination of thoughtfulness and scattershot belligerence. 

    On the way to Kirstin's house this afternoon - during rush hour traffic
    on I-35W - Dmitry was agitated by the numerous trucks, crowded
    conditions, and general discourteous driving which was clearly
    evident.  He spent the trip making dire threats towards all and
    sundry, mostly involving "blasting them to oblivion," interspersed with
    yearnings for grenades and bazookas (he's convinced if only our traffic
    police had tools like those at their disposal, our traffic problems would be a long way to being solved, and who's to say he's not onto something?).

    Dmitry does not suffer fools gladly, believe me when I tell you this. 

    OTOH, when driving home the subject of Meredith and Margaret's swim
    class graduation came up.  Possibly he'll have a change of heart
    by tomorrow afternoon but coming off an hour and a half of Bethie,
    Benjamin, and Bryson (much as he loves them, and he does), he was
    feeling a bit "toddlered" out, and wasn't especially eager to commit
    himself to attending it.

    After a couple of minutes he said, "Mom, I need to ask you something."  He was invited to proceed. 

    Basically it boiled down to his foreseeing his Aunt Elaine attending
    his high school graduation, and possibly another event or two of his,
    so he was worrying about his not attending her daughters' swim
    graduation. "Would that be disrespectful?" he asked.

    Assured him it wouldn't be disrespectful in the least and not to worry
    about it.  Not everyone gets a kick out of things like that, but I
    do, which is why I plan upon going.  If it's not his cup of tea,
    that's fine.  He looked relieved.

    I thought it rather dear of him to even think about it, personally. 

Comments (3)

  • He's a sweet kid. I'm sure that Aunt Elaine will be proud to see his high school graduation (I'm not even related and I would be proud to see him graduate!!)

  • And did you explain to him (Sorry Elaine) that not all graduations are created equal? This is a Big Deal for Meredith and those who love her right now, but lots of kids (like Dmitry) never have a swim graduation and it doesn't scar them for life. A high school graduation is just a bit more of a generally recognized significant milestone.

    Having said all of that...Auntie Anne, you'd BEST be posting photos!

    :)

    me<><

  • As if Auntie Anne won't have her camera with her! Get a grip, Cindy.

    And yes, Cheri, he's a very sweet kid indeed (though he'd be horrified to hear himself described thus).

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